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_enncourage.the.writer's avatar

Nice one Aramide.

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Aramide's avatar

Thank you💜

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S. A. Khan's avatar

You're doing great, life is a roller coaster, I am very proud of how far you've come despite all the challenges. It's okay to go through all those, sometimes, they happen, it's not abnormal, it's pretty normal part of life, or it should be. But people can be very ruthless and cruel about failures. 💔 It can leave am impact that takes quite a while to heal.

And those people that laughed at you, those people who didn't care to emphathise or understand where you came from are insensitive about it. They wouldn't be able to show their faces of they went through the same thing. You're so strong to keep moving forth, so brave to share it and empower and inspire others to feel normal, because success and failure adlrw a part of life.

It's okay to feel those emotions, sometimes they come from the loneliest places. It also means, they deserve love, patience, compassion, soothing words and confrontations in the form of "I can do this", "It feels like that right now, but I know I am not", "You're a chaos in me, it hurts, it's troubling, it's frustrating, but I will handle you with ease, with love and assurance".

Some of our difficult emotions get easier once we acknowledge them. That's the first step towards dealing with them.

You're already doing so great, journaling is one of the best ways to deal with them, you're already on a journey to be the indestructible women!

I love you,

Your Khanie.

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S. A. Khan's avatar

It didn't come in one comment, so here's me replying below. 😅

Some of our difficult emotions get easier once we acknowledge them. That's the first step towards dealing with them.

You're already doing so great, journaling is one of the best ways to deal with them, you're already on a journey to be the indestructible women!

I love you,

Your Khanie.

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Aramide's avatar

Khanieeeee🥺🥺🥺💜 Thank you

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Faoziyah's avatar

Nice one, baby girl!🥰

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Aramide's avatar

Thank you💜

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Israel's avatar

Wow, you are really opening up an intimate page of your life over here..

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Aramide's avatar

It took me so long to gather up the courage

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S. A. Khan's avatar

And it was so worth it, so worth it. Thank you for sharing, and empowering us, making us know we're not alone. That there are people like us struggling too. ❤️

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Israel's avatar

Well done girl!!

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Ade's avatar

You write so well baby girl😊😊..Keep it up, we are all rooting for you😊..

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Aramide's avatar

Thank you🥺💜

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Rare Wordings's avatar

Wow! This piece is very relatable. Despite all odds, we will scale through. Also, university isn't as fun as it was described to me.

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Aramide's avatar

I'm glad, it's relatable.

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